An Orgasmic Trigger is an event that causes an orgasm within a second or perhaps a few seconds of being fired.

Think of turning the key or pressing a button to start an engine; before, the engine was still, but pushing the button fired the engine into life.


An orgasmic trigger fires off an orgasm in a similar way. There are many different orgasmic triggers and they can be fired individually or together to start an orgasm.

Verbal and Physical Triggers
Triggers can be verbal, physical or psychological. Physical triggers are where a man kisses, thrusts, touches, holds or licks a particular part of her anatomy in such a way that it tips her over the edge into orgasm. Saying certain words loudly, or whispering certain words softly in her ear are examples of verbal triggers.

The Freeze
The Freeze is a technique that few men are aware of yet it’s a highly effective way, probably the most effective way, to generate a female orgasm. To understand what the “Freeze” is, let’s consider what happens to the man when he has his orgasm. At the moment of his climax, he typically thrusts deeply into the woman, clenching his buttocks and perhaps other muscles, such as the muscles around his shoulders, back, belly and thighs.

This action, essentially, is “the Freeze”. The man freezes and strains his muscles just as he climaxes.


Psychological Triggers
Psychological triggers are self generated, the individual perhaps reliving a sexy memory or imagining a fantasy. These psychological triggers could also be generated by the man whispering that fantasy or recounting that sexy story in her ear, so that she creates the psychological trigger herself, based on his descriptions and suggestions. In a way it's a variation of a Verbal Orgasmic Trigger.

Combining Orgasmic Triggers
While we talk about individual Orgasmic Triggers, and how one individual action or even a single word can fire an orgasm, it’s the combination of several Orgasmic Triggers fired together that has the most powerful effect. That effect is even more dramatic if the man switches from a gentle, sensuous lovemaking style to suddenly firing 4 or 5 Orgasmic Triggers at once.

Orgasmic Triggers are shown and explained fully in our new EROS Technique DVD:


Better Sex with the EROS Technique DVD
Our Guide to Arousal, Foreplay and Giving her Multiple Orgasms...



The Freeze
Give women orgasms, men last longer too




Penetrative Foreplay
Put her in a "Sensual Trance"