Some women cannot reach an orgasm without direct stimulation of the clitoris. Oral sex is a very effective way to turn a woman on, or give her an orgasm or both. For men, unsure about their capabilities as lovers, oral sex can be a great way to give pleasure.

As the man has not penetrated he is in little danger of coming, and can focus on giving her pleasure.

Much has been written about Oral sex, Ian Kerner's book “She comes first”, being a good read; the practical implementation of his ideas can be a lot of fun too. Try a slow “ice cream lick” as a way to stimulate but not over-stimulate her.

Oral sex on a man
This site focuses very much on improving male techniques in lovemaking and giving her pleasure rather than him. The great thing about a woman giving a man oral sex, is that it arouses him and her. A man can take a break from sexual foreplay so that she can “return the favour” as it were.

But of course many women find performing oral sex on their man very arousing. If a man takes his time arousing her and then invites her to perform oral sex (fellatio) on him, she may be ready for penetrative sex immediately afterwards

Move away then come back
Like all pleasure, breaking away makes it even more pleasurable when you return. So it is with oral sex. A man can stimulate his woman orally so that she is almost at the point of orgasm, then move away to kiss and lick a non-sexual area. As he returns her level of sexual arousal rises once more. This stop/start method of oral arousal can bring a woman to a frenzied state of excitement so that penetration alone can trigger an orgasm.

 

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• Orgasmic Triggers
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• Penetrative Foreplay
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