The G Spot is an area of soft, spongy tissue about 3-4 centimetres inside the vagina on the front (anterior) vaginal wall. It feels a little like a soft, squidgy walnut, slightly projecting out of the vaginal wall.

Not every woman appears to have a G spot, and not every woman is aroused by caressing or massaging that G Spot.

For some women the G Spot is a supercharged sexual area, and direct stimulation will cause an orgasm within a minute or so of stimulation, assuming the woman is already very aroused. For other women stimulation of that area may do absolutely nothing for them.

Why is it called the G spot?
Dr Ernest Grafenberg first described the G Spot in the early fifties though he didn’t describe it as the G Spot, that name was coined by others in deference to him. There has been further research suggesting many women are aroused by stimulation of the whole anterior wall of the vagina, be that the G Spot or adjacent areas.

Dr Grafenberg's original article states that almost every part of a woman’s body is capable of an “erotogenic” response; in other words women can find stimulation of almost any of their body sexually arousing.

Do men have a G Spot?
It’s believed in the developing embryo the tissue that becomes the prostate gland in the male, develops to become the G Spot in the female. The Prostate is a purely male gland, having a role to play in producing the fluid for semen. Stimulation of the prostate with a finger (commonly done by a doctor to establish whether the prostate is swollen) can produce an instant erection; somewhat alarming for the patient, if not for the doctor. So the gland certainly has a role in erections. Other than that there is no sexual equivalent to the G Spot (unless, of course, you know differently!)

Stimulation of the G spot leading to orgasm
Much like stimulation of the clitoris, a woman has to be aroused first in order to find stimulation of the G Spot pleasurable. She therefore needs to be fully lubricated and beginning to squirm with pleasure. The man may find she responds better to oral stimulation first and stimulation of the G Spot second. When she is already very aroused, stimulation of the G Spot by massage will result in a powerful orgasm.

Firm massage seems to generate a more powerful response than gentle caressing, but, as in all things to do with foreplay and sex, every woman is different so each man should experiment to find out what works best for his woman.

Stimulation of the G Spot does not affect all women the same way.
Some women are highly aroused by stimulation of the G Spot whereas for some woman stimulation has no effect whatsoever. Scientific research suggests that 60% of women are aroused to a greater or lesser extent by stimulation of the G Spot or anterior wall of the vagina.

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