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It’s not all good news when you’re a great lover. One of my recent seminars was interrupted by the arrival of a previous attendee. Let’s call him Mike.

The sex seminars I run, incidentally, are all about unleashing the potential of men to be great lovers and unleashing the orgasmic potential of women… Mike, who is among other things, a pub doorman / bouncer, announced that the technique I lecture on (The EROS Technique) should have a warning printed on it.

The problem for him was that since he started using the technique on his new girlfriend she was so won over that she wanted to marry him!

He said he’s only known her a few weeks and now she was texting and calling him all the time. He told the other guys in the workshop that she kept dragging him into bed, while he would wrestle himself away from her saying “No, I’ve got to go to work!” As a confirmed bachelor, the idea of marriage clearly appalled him. His visit to the work shop was to warn other men attending that the EROS Technique also had a downside.

It’s a perspective I hadn’t considered: Can a man be TOO good in bed? What’s your view? I’d love to hear.

Sex Comment and Humour Blog. An entertaining slant on the amusing, lurid and sometimes ridiculous side of sex …

A leading article in the Sunday Times today reports that:

“for many women Viagra has merely highlighted the incompetence of their lovers”

What a fascinating and somewhat disturbing comment on the sexual skills of many men today.

At a time where there is more information than ever before, freely available over the internet and in magazines, it still seems that many men are sadly lacking communication and sensual skills in lovemaking.

For most women, foreplay, both sexual and non-sexual is a critical part of their arousal path so they can reach an orgasmic plateau of excitement. Men tend to think that thrusting is the only way to give a woman an orgasm, whereas thrusting is only one of many “orgasmic triggers” that trip a woman into orgasm or multiple orgasms.

Viagra only works on men, providing mechanical “coupling” assistance only. It is not actually for couples and doesn’t make men into good lovers.

For many women, it has merely highlighted the incompetence of their lovers. More crucially, it has laid bare a female secret that many men never knew.

Penetrative sex does not necessarily give women the best orgasms – and, depending on which study you read, anything from a third to 52% of women never have orgasms in this way. The Viagra revolution has proved that although super-charged erections do a great deal for the self-esteem of men, for women they often create a trail of disaster. According to a study in The Journal of Sexual Medicine, half the men prescribed Viagra don’t go back for more.

Sex Comment and Humour Blog. An entertaining slant on the amusing, lurid and sometimes ridiculous side of sex …

Research by the University of Wales has suggested that more than half of British women prefer chocolate to sex.

It’s known that chocolate releases the same “feel good “chemicals into the blood as sex. These endorphins as they’re known scientifically, produce a natural high, and you get that high from sex, physical exercise and chocolate.

So, for the British woman,
why is chocolate better than sex with a man…?

Possible answers include:
1. Chocolate never disappoints
2. You can see how big the chocolate bar is before you take the wrapping off
3. While men and chocolate both disappear afterwards at least the chocolate doesn’t make empty promises to phone you
4. The bar of chocolate will keep it a secret
5. You don’t have to take your clothes off to eat chocolate
6. You can always have a second bar of chocolate and the first bar won’t get jealous
7. The bar of chocolate only makes a small mess
8. You get to choose white, brown or black chocolate (or all three!) and no-one bats an eyelid
9. You can make a bar of chocolate last the whole evening
10. You just know where you are with a bar of chocolate

But why is sex better?
Well the endorphin blast is bigger with sex, and you can have multiple orgasms with a man, and while you can have multiple bars of chocolate the impact on your body shape is quite different. 10 or 15 orgasms (or more) in an hour with a yummy man makes a woman feel fantastic, while 10 or 15 bars of chocolate on a regular basis will take you from a size 12 to a size 18 faster than it takes to say “70% cocoa”.

Let’s face it, chocolate puts on weight while a multiple orgasm not only burns those calories but leaves the woman with a multiple high from all those endorphins.

But how can you guarantee to have a multiple orgasm (or even one)? Well it all depends on the man. I run work shops at AMORA in London, UK on how any man can be a super lover and give his woman multiple pleasures every time.

And one final thought, girls, have you ever considered the notion that you can turn your man into a super lover, have multiple orgasms every time and STILL get to eat chocolate? What a great way to burn off those extra calories from all that lovely chocolate!!