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Words represent only 7% of our communication, with the tonality we use to say those words, being 38% of our communication. Body Language makes up the rest, so over 50% of what we say, we say with our body language. Does this mean words are redundant?
No, they’re not. Words are very important, better to send a loving text message or leave a loving note than to say nothing at all.
Body language in the relationship
Let’s forget about sex for the moment. In a relationship much can be read into the amount of body language between couples. If one or both parties in a long relationship complain that they seem to have drifted apart or aren’t as close as they used to be, it’s worth spending time on body language. Do they touch? Does he put his arm around her waist? Does she hold his forearm when talking to him? Do they kiss on parting, do they hug when they meet?
Body language in a new relationship
Body language is an intense form of communication in new lovers. Research has shown that couples unknowingly copy each others movements and gestures. When one leans forward, so does the other, when one smiles so does the other. Body contact is usually more frequent in a new relationship, with much handholding, touching, caressing and holding.
Communicating love through body language
We can make a deliberate effort to communicate our feelings through body language when we find it more difficult to communicate with words. A woman will brush an imaginary piece of dust from a man’s shirt or jacket – the body language says “I desire you. I find you attractive. I care about you”.
The man puts his hand on the small of a woman’s back – the body language says “I want to protect you. I care about you. I find you attractive and desirable”. Whatever message you want to convey to the person you love, there is a way of saying it in body language.
Body language: Re-kindling love and desire in long-term relationships
Touch more. Hold hands. Squeeze or hug on parting and on meeting again. Let your hand linger on a shoulder or elbow. Support each other as you walk along a footpath. Stand close, arms touching, as you stop to admire a view.
Squeeze an arm as you bring them a drink, some food or something to read. Smile more. They say that a picture paints a thousand words. Smile, look in their eyes, gently touch and say “I love you”. The words, the tone you use and your body language when you say those three simple words, also paints a thousand words. And, for what it's worth, they also say that the words "I love you" are a much underused aphrodisiac.
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