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 Guys, if you want your woman to become a Sex Goddess, the most important thing is to make her feel good about herself, and turn her brain on, not just her body.
Psychologically speaking we all have quite clear views of who we are. We “see ourselves” acting and speaking in a certain way. If you took your woman to a hypnotists show and the hypnotist persuaded her to be a “Sex Goddess” how would she behave, do you think?
To become a Sex Goddess your woman needs to believe she already is one.
Hypnotism can induce a new personality
In hypnotism shows the hypnotist typically persuades a person in the audience that they or their environment is somehow dramatically different. Someone in the audience can be persuaded to act like a washing machine or a vacuum cleaner. That person may be persuaded that a chair is so hot it’s burning them, or they can be persuaded to give an automatic verbal or physical response to a certain catchphrase. Their brain has been re-programmed to behave dramatically differently. How can this information help a woman become a Sex Goddess?
Whatever the brain believes is reality
Whatever the brain truly believes is real for that person. So anything someone believes strongly enough becomes their reality. Normally we don’t have the opportunity to hypnotise someone, but a man can persuade his woman she is a “Sex Goddess” in his eyes by simply treating her as such, telling her how beautiful and desirable she is, how attractive he finds her, and repeating that whenever he can. Whatever he tells her over and over again has a similar effect to hypnotism.
Compliment, compliment, compliment
A man can never compliment his woman enough. He must tell her continually, how good looking she is, how she has fabulous legs, a wonderful bum, fantastic hair, whatever. Society bombards the woman-in-the-street with idealised pictures of beautiful models, where even the tiniest imperfections are air-brushed out. The average woman- in-the-street cannot match up.
Yes they get their hair done, buy clothes, wear make up and so on, in a bid to look their very best. Yet women are also incredibly self critical and tend to focus on their faults.
Guys, tell her what you find attractive about her
Guys, you must tell her what you find sexy and attractive about her and tell her over, and over, and over again. The more you tell her the more she’ll begin to believe that you find her sexy and attractive. That does her confidence a whole load of good. She’ll feel good about herself and she’ll feel good about her man.
Please don’t compare her to others
Don’t undo it all by looking at, talking about or comparing her to other women. Only compare her to another beautiful woman and only say she’s better, or she looks like a combination of two famous beautiful women. As soon as a man talks about another attractive woman, or looks at her or compares her good points to his partner’s bad points, all the walls of her confidence come crashing down.
A woman’s attractiveness is in her head
A woman feels sexy in her head, and that sexy feeling gets there most effectively by her man constantly telling her how adorable and gorgeous she is. Soon she begins to act sexy. Soon she wants him more in bed. He hasn’t hypnotised her but he has achieved the same thing by repeating how attractive he finds her over a long period of time. Now she really believes she’s a sexy, attractive, desirable woman.
For a woman it happens before sex
For a woman to feel she’s a Sex Goddess, that thought needs to be in her head before sex. She has to feel like that before she begins making love. If he’s made her feel incredibly sexy and attractive earlier with all his compliments and commitment to her then she’s more likely to want to dress up for him or otherwise make a special effort.
Women cannot tidy up the house, finish the dishes, put some sexy clothes on and then feel sexy. It happens way, way before that. She needs to feel sexy and attractive much earlier, maybe while HE’s tidying up the house and doing the dishes!
Choose the time and place for superhot sex
Women respond to romantic, sexy environments. It’s important if you’re at home that the place fits the mood. A messy room covered in plates, clothes, DVDs and so on is not likely to set the mood right. A tidy room, with subdued lighting and sexy music is so much better.
Generally speaking women cannot switch off from their day-to-day environment and be ready for sex in the same way men can. So guys, defer to her needs, help get things right, be a man around the house and help.
Taking time over sexual foreplay
We talk elsewhere on the site about taking time over foreplay, both non-sexual foreplay and sexual foreplay. Women are like ovens, they take a little while to warm up, but once they get hot, they stay hot for a long time. As he gets her more and more turned on over time and continues to tell her how he only has eyes for her, she hots up for him.
A woman typically bonds to “her man”. He is the centre of her universe and once a woman feels that way it takes a lot of negative stuff for her to even begin thinking of another man. After a reasonable time of sexual foreplay she’s now red hot, maybe white hot for her man.
She’s hot and she’s bonded to her man – now what?
Elsewhere we’ve written about Penetrative Foreplay and Orgasmic Triggers. There’s some valuable free stuff on this site to help guys give their woman a fantastic time on bed. Penetrative Foreplay is all about the man really taking his time, even after he’s penetrated, so he’s moving slowly and not thrashing away. If he’s moving slowly she’ll be stepping up the pace, she’ll be turning into that Sex Goddess he wants. The more he relaxes and takes his time the more she comes on to him.
Use Orgasmic Triggers to fire her Orgasms
Once she’s really turned on, he can fire those Verbal or Physical Orgasmic Triggers and bring her to orgasm over and over again. The best way to receive is to give. The more the man gives her pleasure the more she will want to return that pleasure to him.
In summary, a woman has to be (continually) seduced into becoming a Sex Goddess
It’s inevitable for any woman leading a busy, stressful life, to forget about how pleasurable sex is. It's up to her man to remind her how truly gorgeous she is. Remember she’s continually bombarded by images of other women who look stunningly beautiful. She needs to be reminded she's just as beautiful as them to her man.
It’s so important for her man to continually tell her how attractive and gorgeous she is, and how she's the only woman for him; there is no other woman for him but her. The more he tells her this, the better she’ll feel about herself and the sexier she’ll feel towards him. So it’s all in the man’s hands, it’s up him.
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