OK, first let’s consider what it takes to really excel at anything whether that’s sport, hobbies or career or whatever.

There are essentially three elements:
1) skills
2) experience
3) belief

We acquire skills by reading, listening, watching and practising (let’s be clear – not all of these are possible for lovemaking “Sex God” skills!). We acquire experience by doing whatever it is, and by practising skills and trying things out.

Finally we acquire a belief system; in the beginning it may be a belief that “I can be good at this if I practice” which changes over time to become “I’m really good at this”. Let’s take those one at a time and apply them to lovemaking

Acquiring the skills of a “Sex God”
The challenge for a lot of men is that they don’t like reading sex education books; what’s more they don’t like reading pink sex books written by women. Somehow it doesn’t seem right. There’s an awful lot of free, top quality information on this website, and it’s information written by a man for men.

Secondly there is extra information at a small cost which gets right to the heart of great lovemaking technique (the EROS Technique), the key triggers that fire off Orgasms in women (Orgasmic Triggers) and how a man maintains composure and avoids climaxing too early ( the O Switch).

Finally, for those of you in the UK there are regular seminars and talks sponsored by Lovemakingforum.com

Acquiring the experience of a Sex God
There’s only one way to get experience, and that’s to try things out to see what works. For a man there’s often the tendency to leap in and try something without first getting the woman completely aroused and relaxed. Guys, when you’re trying things out for the first time, relax, take your time, and make sure the woman in your life is equally relaxed.

It may make more sense to try things out on a night when you don’t have to work the next day or on a weekend morning when you can take your time. Don’t try things just the once and then give up; for example if you’ve bought the document on Orgasmic Triggers, remember it may need a little bit longer spent on one Trigger, or using it in combination with another Trigger, or perhaps she needs to be really turned on before that Trigger will work

Believing he’s a Sex God
There are two stages to belief in all aspects of life: 1) believing it’s possible for you to achieve or be something 2) believing you now have that skill or capability – you’re there! The first stage comes does down to this, anyone who is now good at something was once not so good or inexperienced at it.

So anyone who’s any good at anything learnt through skills and experience to become good at it. Anything anyone else can do, you can do too. Believe that’s its possible to give a woman 5 or 10 orgasms, and it will come true!

Belief comes from feedback
There are two sources of feedback, from the other person and from yourself. If the woman gives him lots of “Ooohh! Aaahh! Wonderful!” feedback he’ll know whatever he’s doing is working. So girls, make sure when he’s trying new things that you give him positive or negative feedback. If its negative feedback it’s best to say “Please can you do a bit more of this, and a bit less of that”. In other words always give him some kind of positive feedback.

Personal feedback
On this site we’ve covered the different signs of arousal and the signs she’s having an orgasm. Guys, become supersensitive at noticing her reaction to all those Orgasmic Triggers you fire.

Once you know which ones really work and you know she’s having 5, 6, 7 or more orgasms every time you make love you know you’ve become that Sex God. Or maybe you’ll set a target of 20 orgasms in one lovemaking session. Once you have the skills, experience and belief anything’s possible!

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• The Freeze
  Give women orgasms, men last longer too
   
• Orgasmic Triggers
  Physical and Verbal events to fire her orgasms
   
• Penetrative Foreplay
  Put her in a "Sensual Trance"